When two worlds collide (in a good way)


Hi Reader,

A few months ago, I was asked to deliver my training program for individuals. No organization. Just the people, so they can benefit from it for themselves.

I re-purposed my training material for delivery to individuals without much effort because it was always about helping leaders become more self aware.

The primary difference was this time the desired outcome was improved SELF LEADERSHIP.

Here's the back story...When I deliver training to a group of leaders at a corporate client, I'm guiding them to become more effective leaders in the workplace.

In this scenario, there are two beneficiaries: the organization and the leaders, themselves.

When I write marketing copy about this training, I emphasize the benefit of the training with statements such as "reduce turnover," and "improve employee performance." These are benefits exclusively for the organization.

In other words, my marketing copy doesn't stress the benefit to the leaders.

That's regrettable. Guilty as charged.

This is why I devoted the last three podcast episodes to self leadership. This week's episode 294 is the fourth and final episode in this series on self leadership.

This is the episode where I deliver the tool I've promised in episodes 291, 292, and 293.

It's called the 90 Day Self Leadership Blueprint. And, it's build to last.



This blueprint is not for everyone. It's not for you if you are adequately fulfilled in most areas of your life, or if you're solidly entrenched in a fulfilling career.

This blueprint is for two people.

If you're in the middle of a hard job search, getting your applications screened by AI and the loudest sound you hear is crickets, this blueprint is for you.

If you're a high achiever with a great title, an enviable career and reputation, yet you're wondering, "is this it?," this blueprint is for you.

The reason this blueprint is for these two profiles is because the next move is exactly the same for both.

The blueprint asks you to identify your anchor, and the three moves you want to make over the next 90 days. The 90-day framework allows you to identify the 30/60/90-day checkpoints for accountability.

My favorite part of the blueprint is the Friction-Proofing Plan. You'll identify the three enemies most likely to derail your plan before they ever show up, and importantly, define your defense strategy against these three enemies.

Your defense against these three enemies are either system-level, or identity-led.

Every plan experiences friction at some point. When that friction happens your defense strategy has already been identified. You planned to overcome these enemies because you knew they were coming.

Preview this week's episode 294 in this video clip.


video preview

The 90-Day Self Leadership Blueprint is a free resource.

I was once asked by someone in one of my coaching programs why I didn't share this resource more broadly.

So, here it is available to anyone who wants it. I'm asking you to fill out a short form so I know who accessed it. This allows me to keep you informed of future private group cohorts that use this blueprint.


You Can Catch This Week's Episode:

Listen on Apple
Listen on Spotify
Listen on Overcast
Listen on our Website
Watch on YouTube


If you're not one of the two profiles the blueprint is intended for, share it with a friend who is.



Stay fulfilled,
Bernie Borges
Founder: The Fulfilled@Work Academy
Host, Life Fulfilled Podcast

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